Who are you ? You're just who you are !

Sometime someone ask you to change ! They told you that you did something wrong , you should do like XXXXXX but when you really changed ,someone will come out and tell you the other ways and ask you to follow ....and at the end you don't even know who you are ! Everyone got their own identity and no one is perfect , we should not aspect someone to be perfect in all the ways ! When you start to complain, I sure that you'll not stop ! Sometime I'm curious why we should listen to people ? We listen to people to make us more perfect ? yes, I think so but people should not thought that we're suppose to accept every opinion given by them ! We living in this world try to make our life more comfortable and earning money to cover our daily expenditure but sometime we lose our own way. When we lose our own way, we starting to be curious and more people walk through this in their live but someone lose their way in their whole life so we're counted lucky because we're still on our own way ~ So my conclusion is we should listen to people all the time but we could accept or reject their opinion depend on the truth or false in our mind !